The Last One

June 20, 2013 – I wrote this post three weeks ago. I should not have broken my promise to myself. I lost my voice, if I really ever had one to begin with. I should have never publicly posted anything; the commentators from Monday were right.

No more posts.

My public diary has contributed to the end of a relationship.

No more posts.

It’s not worth the hurt.

Thank you all for your readership and friendship. It’s been an interesting 5 years.

6 thoughts on “The Last One

  1. Seriously?

    I cannot believe you all are still sympathizing with SingleMom on this! Brad repeatedly told her NOT to write about him and she deliberately ignored him. She did not “love” him, she has serious dependency issues and stalker tendencies. SingleMom needs a REAL therapist, not this sorry excuse for a blog. She is not a writer, she is a whiny little girl who begs for attention in every aspect of her life and this “blog” was the best way she knew how to get it. I say good riddance to her diary and their “relationship.”

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    1. Give it a rest!

      What is your problem? Don’t you think you and your friends have done enough? This wonderful woman apologized and has stopped writing and you STILL can’t leave her alone? Who has the stalker tendencies now? I have never known SingleMom to be as miserable as she is now and yet you continue to bully and harass her. What she and Brad are feeling and going through is for THEM alone. Your opinion is not making the situation easier for either of them. Unless SingleMom herself told you she never loved Brad, your claim is completely out of line. In a previous post – one of the many she removed due to your bullying – she wrote how she didn’t even feel this horrible about the end of her marriage; the end of her relationship with Brad – which should not be blamed on just one person – has removed the light from her eyes. She is completely beside herself and you are such a small rodent of a person to continue haranguing her on the website she gave up in her sorrow. Grow up and let her be!

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      1. Seriously?

        Aww, did we hurt your widdle friend’s feelings? Good! Now she knows how it felt when she trashed Brad on the Internet. I still say good riddance. Brad deserves better treatment than that. He doesn’t need her messing up his life.

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  2. P.S.

    Michelle,

    I am so sorry about you and Brad. Watching your love for him grow gave me such hope for myself. I know you were angry and hurting when you wrote that post last week and while I won’t beat you up for it anymore than the others -and you – did, I agree it should have remained private. But I also know how much you’d been hurting the weeks leading up to it and so I sympathize and mourn with you. Your love for Brad, and his for you, was obvious to all who knew you two as a couple. I only met him the one time, but I could see how much he cared for you. Hearing stories about your dates and how he stayed with you in the hospital and how you were just certain he was the one you were going to marry – it hurts my heart to know how much you are missing Brad in your life. I really had hoped you two would find a way to work through your differences and be a stronger couple for it. It pains me to see how much you are punishing yourself for the mistake you made. I hope that one day Brad can forgive you for it – we are, after all, human. If I could fix this all with a wave of my magic wand, I would. I wish I could make you both see how much you love each other and how wonderful your lives together could be. I hope you know how much you are loved by the people in your life. I know that’s not what you want to hear, I know you only want to hear that from Brad, but we ARE here for you.

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  3. Angela B

    Don’t be so hard on yourself. I truly do not believe that you ended a relationship because of your blog. I know right now it hurts and the wounds are raw but I hope that you are able to see that some day. What those people did to your blog was beyond mean and it’s a little disappointing to see adults bullying another adult like that. You deserve someone who will fight for you.

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  4. valerie b

    I’m sorry to see this is the end to such a fascinating insight to your life. You are such a strong woman for being able to disclose the most intimate parts of your life. You are a model to all women out there who are not comfortable sharing their lives for whatever the reason. I enjoyed the opportunity to get to know your creative writing styles and protrayal of faith, love, life, and all the nitty gritty(because that’s what faith, love, and life are)

    Don’t stay away to long :)

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